Ever wonder why your horse sees you coming up in the pasture and turns to walk away? Sort of hurts your feelings doesn't it! At least it used to hurt mine!
That's because most of us have a dream of an amazing bond with our horse- the kind where the horse willingly leaves his buddies and the luscious grass to trot TOWARD us with a warm welcome whinny!
I think one of the reasons this often happens is that frequently we approach the horse with an attitude of "What can I do TO him today?" rather than "How can we BE together?"
The horse immediately picks up this attitude that basically, he's an object to you.
But, he'd rather be a partner and enjoy a connection WITH you.
He'd rather you focus FIRST on BEING with him, and once that connection is established, he's much more willing to DO with and for you.
Heck, the same is true for all of your relationships, isn't it?!
If you approach anyone- co-worker, spouse, child- with the attitude of what they can do FOR YOU- they bristle and it's not very successful.
Approach the same person, with the same request, but come from a place of curiosity to who they are in that moment and what their needs might also be- and you've opened the door for cooperation.
That's why learning to create heart-centered connection is a success skill for all of your relationships!
Learn more about how you can create that connection!
Listen to my interview with Glen from Horse Tip Daily:
Tip #8- Sharing Your Heart with Your Horse
Or watch my YouTube Video:
Creating Heart Centered Connection with Your Horse
Give it a try soon and stop back by to let me know what happens when you connect from the heart first!